3 Signs To Look For In A Guy On A First Date
Dating world is a really fascinating world. Especially for a Lady. All the attention, flirting and romantic dates makes us feel like a fairy tale princess. We even find guys with whom we really hit it off and even start a relationship with them. But with time slowly we realize he is not the right guy and then there are fights and eventually a horrible break up.
Have you ever thought why that is? It is usually because initially we fall for the romantic humor, charm, flirting and pay no attention to the things that actually do matter. So what are the three most important things that you should notice in a guy to make sure that there is scope for a long lasting relationship?
So here are the three things that I find are helpful to judge a guy’s character.
Sign 1. What are the things he notices about you?
It seems like a vague thing because he can complement your hair or smile or dress. How will you know whether his complements are genuine or not? That you can tell by the way he complements. It is very easy for a person to tell lies but the body language always reveals the truth. If he actually finds your smile beautiful he will notice it every time you smile. If he finds your eyes beautiful he will actually look into them.
Sign 2. What is he interested in?
Obviously you, which is why he is on a date with you but the question is directed as to what in you? That can be judged as what he continues upon. Like if you tell him that your hobby is to read books. What kinds of book will be a general follow up question but if he really wants to know you then he will ask you further questions on that. If a guy is interested in you he will actually listen and show his interest and you can test that, say you told him about your favorite singer like 15 minutes ago you can randomly ask him about that and if he answers that means he is listening to you. Also it is important to judge which topics he is showing interest in? Like you tell him you live alone, if he asks where it is better to avoid telling him that especially on first date but if he persists, Hello Burglar alert. I am just giving an example and scenario could be different so you have to be smart.
Sign 3. What do both of you want in life?
Firstly it is important to know what you want in life. Whether you are interested in a short term or a long term relationship? Similarly you should ask him what he wants. And make sure that your answers match. Many times it happens that guys give fake answers just to impress the girl enough to get laid. Now how to judge them? To be frank you cannot always successfully judge other’s lies. Here you have to be slow. See whether this person is a man of his words or not. Whether or not he acts on his words.
Do leave comments if any of these tips help you. You liked them or disliked them. We will be happy to get back at you.
Have you ever thought why that is? It is usually because initially we fall for the romantic humor, charm, flirting and pay no attention to the things that actually do matter. So what are the three most important things that you should notice in a guy to make sure that there is scope for a long lasting relationship?
So here are the three things that I find are helpful to judge a guy’s character.
Sign 1. What are the things he notices about you?
It seems like a vague thing because he can complement your hair or smile or dress. How will you know whether his complements are genuine or not? That you can tell by the way he complements. It is very easy for a person to tell lies but the body language always reveals the truth. If he actually finds your smile beautiful he will notice it every time you smile. If he finds your eyes beautiful he will actually look into them.
Sign 2. What is he interested in?
Obviously you, which is why he is on a date with you but the question is directed as to what in you? That can be judged as what he continues upon. Like if you tell him that your hobby is to read books. What kinds of book will be a general follow up question but if he really wants to know you then he will ask you further questions on that. If a guy is interested in you he will actually listen and show his interest and you can test that, say you told him about your favorite singer like 15 minutes ago you can randomly ask him about that and if he answers that means he is listening to you. Also it is important to judge which topics he is showing interest in? Like you tell him you live alone, if he asks where it is better to avoid telling him that especially on first date but if he persists, Hello Burglar alert. I am just giving an example and scenario could be different so you have to be smart.
Sign 3. What do both of you want in life?
Firstly it is important to know what you want in life. Whether you are interested in a short term or a long term relationship? Similarly you should ask him what he wants. And make sure that your answers match. Many times it happens that guys give fake answers just to impress the girl enough to get laid. Now how to judge them? To be frank you cannot always successfully judge other’s lies. Here you have to be slow. See whether this person is a man of his words or not. Whether or not he acts on his words.
Do leave comments if any of these tips help you. You liked them or disliked them. We will be happy to get back at you.
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